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April 9th - Wine Tasting & Ron’s Taboo Video’s Screening

A few of us went to the Abbotsford Taboo Sex Show last weekend. It was a fun time with a lot of really pretty girls. I had a good time there, as I had booth, and this time I had a video camera and for once, I was able to get some decent footage.

I’ve promised a few guys a screening, so ok, let’s do it this Wednesday night, April 9th. I will show 3 interactions with the ladies I did (I got a few hours, don’t know which ones) while at the same time we will also have….

The second VSB wine tasting event. The last one a week ago was fun. This one will be good as well. What we are going to do is this:

We are going to meet at my place (1009 Expo Blvd) at 7:30pm. Then at 8:00pm we will all walk to Taylorwood Wines a block away and buy four bottles of wine (likely three Icewines and a regular bottle of red). Then we’ll go back to my place and taste the wine as we watch the video and talk about what happened. The last time we talked for a few hours, so it should be fun times.

I’m going to buy some cheese and crackers to go with the wine, along with some fruit, so we will split the costs of everything amongst all those who come. It could be $30-$45 in the end, but it depends on how many people come.

So if you are interested in coming, just reply to this thread and let me know.

Here is a preview of the video from last weekend.

What a great turnout and dinner we had at Wings on Saturday!! To continue with the activities, I would like to set up another group event, this one…..is… Ice wine Tasting!!!

Ice Wine is a special exclusive and luxurious wine that is unique in that it uses grapes that are harvested when partly frozen. This results in a sweeter wine that has become a favorite of all who try it. There are a few ice wines on the market and what I propose is that a few of us get together at my place at 8pm this Wednesday. Then we are going to walk over to the liquor store and by at least three brands of ice wine.

Then we’ll go back to my place and try then out! Whom ever comes will split the bills. Bring a glass or cup if you don’t want to be drinking out of teacups (sorry, all my wine glasses are broken by now).

If you want to come, please email me at coach@manmeetswoman.com.

Hello gentlemen, in follow up to the talk we had on February 10th, I am announcing new initiatives that I will be leading the group into. Again, I encourage you to set up activities as well for us, based on our guidelines.

We have someone who said they will look into adding a calendar function to the forum, or the blog, which will be a big help. I’m still quite busy myself and am making time for this, thus, I would love to have someone help us by coordinating the activities (you will have help) in the beginning. Once we have this person identified, please email him in advance to let him know if you want to set anything up, to give us a heads up!!!

I haven’t come up with a proper schedule yet, but here are the thing that I am putting out there. Some of this is in recognition that we are expanding our scope from just about meeting women to about taking care of ourselves as a whole (i.e. I’ve identified some skills that you bachelors should consider getting, which will help your quality of life in the future).

VSB ACTIVITIES

Talks/discussions groups - I am about to lead a series of talks/discussion meetings with special topics. The first couple are open to everyone. Not to be missed, topics to be announced shortly (example. “Why men in the community don’t have girlfriends or female friends”. And “Neediness will kill you”).

Ron’s cooking class – you need to learn how to cook. I will teach you everything I know, twice a month, on a Sunday, at my place (don’t expect me to be good though, haa).

The Friday night pump – we will meet and workout somewhere to get in shape!

Karaoke and singing sessions – if you can get used to singing in front of other guys, you will lose a lot of fear! This will be a fun exercise every week.

VSB OUTINGS

We have been talking about having regular outings, which will be listed on the calender. These will include:

Tuesday nights at Celebrities – the regular outing.

Saturday afternoon at a mall/street – alternating weekends.

Friday or Saturday night sarge – we’ll try different places.

Some of the outings will have themes, such as:

AMOG Nights – you are allowed to amog each other.

Pair sarging – this is where you MUST wing for each other.

The Quiet Seduction – this is where you try to get more by saying less (i.e. kiss her without saying anything).

The Direct Approach – this is where you be as direct as you can with the woman.

The Instant Date – this is where you try to instant date the woman on the spot.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT/SKILL BUILDING

I know that there is interest in learning these. If you are interested in one, let us know and we’ll see if we can get a group going. They include:

Singing lessons, guitar lessons, salsa lessons, bungee jumping, sky diving, improv class, dance class, Chinese language lessons.

Best,

Ronald Lee

Last night (Friday) I was working away on my computer, exhausted from the day but at the same time wanting to go out. Mike and I had made plans to go to the Cravin Misbehavin’ Valentines Singles Party, but I hadn’t heard from him, and by 10pm, I was fed up with waiting and was getting ready to go out by myself when he calls.

“Hey, I’m just leaving Hennessey now.” I tell him I’ll meet him outside the Commodore Ballroom.

I get there and it doesn’t look promising from the outside. I thought there was supposed to be 1000 people, surely there would be a lineup outside. After some deliberating, where I convince Mike to stop being a cheap bastard, we go in.

It was quite busy, perhaps 500 people (half full, I’ve seen the place with more) and a lot of obviously single people. Let the games begin!

I chat up this girl as Mike gets me a drink (water, boys, only water) and she starts grinding up on me. Then I follow the guys to a different part of the hall and I ask another random girl what was the deal with some people holding onto some playing cards.

“Oh, you’re supposed to find someone with the same card as you. Then she is your match”.

(me) “Then what? We get to make out or something?”

(she laughs) “Sure, why not?”

We look at each other for a bit. I say, “You know we don’t need a card to make out”.

So we did, haaa.

I follow the guys upstairs and then I see her following me. So I introduce her to the guys and find out more about her story. Next I take her to the dance floor, but alas, there was no chemisty and she wasn’t my type, so I thanked her and went back to the guys.

The rest of the night was ok. Because the ballroom was so huge and only half full of singles, there wasn’t that many people to talk to. I ran into a few clients of mine, and spent a lot of time by the bar and candy area as that was where the most traffic was. It was more of the same. Standing around and talking to the women who passed by. Some more kisses here and there…

There were two women whom I met who really stood out. One was a beautiful brunette, who was sitting at the side with her friend. I was intrigued by her smile and even more interested in her outlook on relationships. I shared with her my way of the cube and I thought she’d actually be fun to hang out with. At some point in my interaction with her, I felt someone pushing up against my back, but I didn’t check to see who it was. It turned out is was Mike who was talking to another girl. He eventually took her upstairs and made out with her, I’m told.

The second woman was this really beautiful blonde…a Leo, no doubt (love Leo’s) and we have a quick but really deep (as deep as one can get when quick) interaction where I told her that if she and I were dating, I’d want her around all of the time. So I’m there, holding onto her hand like I normally do, connecting with her delicately through mind and touch, when two of her friends try to come by and pull her away. They actually grabbed her arm and tried to pull her. BUT she wouldn’t leave and wanted to talk more. So one of her friends leave, while the other points at my hand holding her hand and raises serious objection. I, wanting to get to know my new friend, spot Mike come up behind me, so I introduce him to her friend, while I try to memorize blondie’s phone number. As it turned out, Mike and her friend had a nice invigorating chat themselves, so I tried to verify my memory of said phone number with her and got it wrong (I heard it wrong). I put it in my cell phone and had her check it just to be sure. I’m really liking this girl.

Then we notice that the place suddenly became almost empty. I guess at 1:30am, Vancouver’s singles had better places to be. I took a stroll down Granville and ran into Stefan and Greg, then off to home and back to work on my Sunday event again.

Ronald Lee
VSB owner/moderator